The Modern Groom

The engagement ceremony is the beginning of all festivities. Depending on the season and time of the day, a sharply cut suit can be a great option. For summer and daytime events, lighter shades of grey, blue and even beige works, and in winter when it's colder, deeper shades of charcoal, slate and navy are ideal especially during night time events.

It is a great tip to match an element of the groom's attire with the bride's outfit, be it the tie or the pocket square. In terms of accessories, cufflinks, collar stays and tie pins add the perfect amount of polish to the dashing groom's attire. Be mindful of details such as socks, length of the slacks and the fit of the jacket.

CELEBRATION IN AN OLD-FASHIONED WAY

For Holud, grooms nowadays are spoilt for choices. One could opt for a panjabi with detailed embroidery and embellishments, paired with churidaar shalwar or loose pyjama and an uttoriyo. This could be in a contrasting colour, or a complementary one. 

Next option is a fitted panjabi with a coatee in contrasting or coordinating hue or fabric. In this case, a churidaar shalwar works best.  This looks particularly dressy. Another option is pairing the panjabi with dhoti-pants, for a touch of Bangaliana.

The fit of the panjabi is all important. One could choose either a classic cut or a slim-fit. Getting it tailoured is the best way to ensure the right fit. As far as colours are concerned, the options are endless. While classic shades such as beige, golden and copper are eternal favourites, nowadays bright colours are all the rage. Be sure to coordinate with the décor, and if it's a joint programme, then complementing the bride is of utmost importance. In terms of footwear, open-toed sandals are de rigueur for panjabi, but leather moccasins and loafers also work well.

SANGEET AND MEHENDI

For fun events like the 'Sangeet' and the 'Mehendi', similar styles could work, but if one really wants to stand out, a short kurta paired with Jodhpur pants and a coatee looks regal. Use a pocket square and cufflinks to add the right amount of detail to the ensemble.

AND FINALLY...THE DAY!

The wedding is the all important event, and a sherwani, the way to go. You want to pick a colour that is elegant, classic and timeless. Stay away from reds, electric blues and purples. Possible options? Cream, beige, gold or copper.

Rich embroidery and embellishments add the right amount of appeal to the wedding attire, but be frugal with it. The pagri could be in a contrasting tone, or a coordinating one. It could be decorated with a Kundan Taj or Kaalghi. A few strings of pearls can be worn if you desire a regal touch. And a pair of nagra must be worn with socks to complete the outfit.

THE RECEPTION

The reception calls for a sophisticated, glamorous outfit. A tuxedo is a way to go, but a sharply cut suit works too. For a tuxedo, get the details right. From the cut of the lapel to the pleats of the shirt to the satin piping down the sides of slacks, all of it matters.

Black is the colour of choice and it must be worn with a pair of tuxedo shoes. The bow tie, however, is optional; a tie works just as well. Alternately, a suit in deep shade of grey, slate or navy will do too. Other details such as cufflinks could be bejewelled or plain. Pocket square is a must, and a boutonniere adds a touch of class and sophistication to the ensemble.

Although the reception formally concludes festivities surrounding the wedding, it marks the beginning of a new set of post-wedding events. As far as dressing is concerned, one must consider the time of the event and bear in mind the social importance. Panjabis work well in almost every situation but it is possibly best to toy around a little and show some originality in the selection which will reflect your taste and preferences.

MODEL: AZIM

WARDROBE: ZURHEM

LOCATION: ZURHEM