Public Speaking: Woe to Wow

Public speaking is not an easy deal. In an era when we glorify anti-social behaviour and “I don't like human interactions” comes off as a style statement, talking to fellow humans in a public setting is pretty difficult. The most interesting thing is that people whom we know as social and good with words are often the ones facing difficulty because public speaking is totally a different issue.

I would say if you are not comfortable talking in public, then don't join debate clubs or take up courses or jobs that require you to interact with a lot of people. Not everyone has to do the same thing and win at that. There's however a different theory that says you should do more of the things you are not comfortable doing so that you can face your demons bravely.

What about the times when you are actually without an option? There's probably a job interview, a viva or a class presentation and all you have to do is speak. Fear not and grab a Snickers.

I'm serious. When we are really nervous, we feel dizzy and unwell. Having a quick snack such as a chocolate bar or a fruit can help restore your energy and make you feel better. Secondly, prepare well and by preparation I mean gaining knowledge on the subject.

If your viva is on biology, no amount of charm can help you know what mitosis is. So, study the subjects you are presenting on or are likely to be asked about in an interview/viva. 

Then comes the golden rule of practice. That's right. practice makes you perfect or at least the world tells us so. Practice in front of the mirror or a friend or in front of your mom who by default, loves you and thinks you are smart. If it's a group presentation, try to go for a rehearsal with your team-mates, and time yourselves.

Often in a team, there is no winner. Group sync is what gets you through. Also, let your team-mates know about your discomforts. If you think you are uncomfortable presenting in the beginning, talk them into accommodating you in the middle. People are often much more cooperative than we think.

The trick with verbal communication is that there are no absolutes. Sometimes, there is no right or wrong answer. Your expression, posture and assertion play a deciding role in whether you get the job or not. It's tricky. Also, not all methods work for everyone.

For example, I am not very comfortable rehearsing before a presentation. In case I make a mistake, I lose confidence and tend to give up. I perform better right on the spot though different self-help articles on the internet suggest otherwise. 

These little tips were from my pocket and they are definitely not rules of thumb. It's important that you find out which methods suit you best and then act accordingly. The people you are delivering to are humans like you. Remembering this helps. Always.