How to make friends at work

Whether you're the new guy struggling to get the hang of things or an old employee who's still a little confused about it all, you need friends at the office who'll give you a leg up every now and then. Work friends can make the job more fun and provide further incentives for you to improve. But we know, it's easier said than done, so here's our guide to help you out.

Greet nicely

People catch hold of micro-expressions. Merely acknowledging someone with a nod is not enough. Be it on the go or during a formal introduction, wave hi and smile at the people you come across around the office. It makes an individual seem more approachable and your co-workers become interested in getting to know you better.

Ask for help

While offering to help is always emphasised upon, we often forget to seek for it when needed. From tiny inquiries to big favors, asking someone to help you out makes them feel credible. It gives off a sense of respect for the other person and adds to your impression.

Be interested in others' work

Making friends is never a one-sided road. If your colleagues don't feel like you're interested in them, they won't put in the effort to do so either. Strike up a conversation about what they're working on. Go into the details and see if you can provide useful insights.

Follow up

Conversations around the office prove to be fake when you forget about them later on. Don't engage in them just out of politeness. Make sure to ask your co-worker again about that project he/she mentioned working on last week. People like it when you remember things they're invested in.

Connect outside the office

Adding the work peeps on social media is a must. There's so much more to a person than what they give away in a closed office setting. You get to know about their personal interests quickly and it's an amazing way to let them know about what's important in your life. A nice photo with your friends, a funny joke you shared or an opinion on an important matter can open up numerous discussion topics. 

Small talk can have big impact

You can't always expect people to share a lot when they're busy and worried about the upcoming deadline. But that doesn't mean catching up during small breaks have to come to a halt.  As much as you love a deep, insightful conversation, don't ignore the impression a nice light-hearted chat can leave on the opposite cubicle.

Attend common events

Try to join office parties and events your co-workers are attending as well. You'll love the time away from all the work and pressure and end up having a nice time with them.

Celebrate small achievements and occasions

Make a big deal out of birthdays, buy small gifts and be sure to dish out compliments when your co-worker nails a task. If you want to make friends at work nothing does the job better than making others feel like they matter.

Illustration: Ehsanur Raza Ronny