Small acts of piety

It is important to remember that the festivities of Eid are not just about our nearest and dearest, but serve also an opportunity to share the joy with all those who help us in our day to day lives. There are many such people we can find who all contribute to making our lives that much easier, in their own ways. 

Eid is a great time to recognise these individuals who are often times forgotten. A little effort on your part will not only make the occasion festive for them too but will also give you a sense of fulfillment.  Handing out Eid gifts to the less fortunate ones working for us is common now, as it is to be expected. And indeed many of us will opt to give Eid attires to those who work for us, but instead of choosing an attire for them, why not take the time out of your busy schedule and take them shopping?

It will be a special treat for them and they will certainly love the whole experience. The happiness on their faces, as you buy their special Eid dress of choice, will be priceless! 

Do not leave your house help all by themselves while you take your family on a post-Eid outing. Family is bound by kinship and not only blood. It does not have to be anywhere particularly special – take them out for ice cream! Try to give their wards the same privileges that our children enjoy, even if it is for a day or two! Eid should be a day when everyone is treated the same; the embraces  are to be exchanged regardless of class and creed, so why not maintain the same spirit throughout the day? 

We meet familiar faces everyday while we commute – the same children selling flowers and candies for a living. Try and imagine how Eid can be for them. With a small effort on your part, it can truly be different this year. 

Rather than buying chocolates and knickknacks from superstores, buy those from them just to boost their sale. Remember, these children have chosen to work hard for money in a dignified manner. Respect that and reward them for their work. This will only encourage them to work harder and your little boost can have long-lasting effects. 

Lastly, remind yourself to tip the cleaners and menial staff at your workplace. They probably will never ask for money, but a small gesture for their yearlong effort will surely leave a positive impression. Plus, it will show them that you do remember and appreciate their efforts. Who doesn't like a little appreciation? 

If you are shy to hand over money, buy things for them. Gifts can never go wrong and even the smallest of trinkets shows that you cared enough to make the effort. That is what counts, afterall. 

Consider these acts not as a form of charity; take them as your social obligation. By making small amends, you can truly bring happiness to people's lives. And in a world that is slowly becoming unrecognisable, empathy will play a role in your lives as well.

Eid, and the month of Ramadan itself, is an opportunity to practice piety and to think about others. During Eid, continue this by being cordial with those around you.

By Mormee Mahtab