Eid shopping: Last-minute checklist

As the month of Ramadan winds down, the anticipation builds for the Eid holiday. Those traveling to village homes from Dhaka are already rejoicing at the prospect of meeting family, and while they are also reveling at being away from the noise and traffic  that comes along with Dhaka life, those staying back can sigh a breath of relief as roads empty out and allow for long, breezy rickshaw rides. It's a rare win-win. 

“Eid” literally means happiness, and happiness comes in many forms during this time. One of the lesser forms is the monetary bonus that a lot of people receive before Eid (parents who give their children's private tutors Eid bonuses, You Da Real MVP!). If you haven't had the time (or have just been too lazy) to do your Eid shopping, here's a reminder: Today is the 29th day of Ramadan, and you may want to get moving. Here are a few tips to help you along the way: 

CLOTHES
Shopping is a reason to live for some, and the bane of any holiday for others. That's why it's difficult to provide a universal suggestion. Some like spending oodles of cash while others transform into the Grinch of Eid-ul-Fitr. While there are more options in the Eid market, the stores are also insanely crowded (particularly by now), so you're never at the mental ease to make your best call. There's also the issue of the trial room backlog, which is as infuriating as it is time-consuming. Before you head out to shop, it's always a good idea to take your measurements so you know whether the outfit of your choice will be in size. 

If you're shopping for Eid clothes, shop for only that. This is true particularly for jeans and other, more casual wear (more so if you want to hit New Market, Badruddoza aka Dhaka College market or Bongo Bazar to get them) – don't go now unless you absolutely have to. It's packed, they will inevitably ask for the “Eid'er market” price, and you will be elbowed way too many times to thoroughly check the item in case you're worried about defects. Buying the same items will be hassle-free if you go right after Eid; you will get much better bargains – sales will be low, they would have already made big profits, and would be looking to clear up space in their typically small inventories. You will also not be mobbed by manic shoppers, and can take your time. 

If you're tailoring your outfits, don't pick it up at the last moment. Tailors are in haste because it's their peak season, and they may mess something up. Give yourself (and them) that time to fix it up, to avert last-moment disappointments. 

FOOTWEAR
Pretty much everyone gets new footwear ahead of Eid, and you should too. Unless there's a fancy pair of sandals you've bought recently, this is the time, since footwear stores bring out their best products at this time. Choose comfort over looks, because it supports your entire body's weight and there are few worse things than poorly-fitting shoes on Eid day, when you will be visiting places and (probably) be out for a big part of the day. It's always suggested you shop for shoes last, because our feet expand slightly as we keep walking, and you'll get the best fit if you try on a shoe after you've walked a couple of hours. 

GIFTS
There is no happiness greater than in making others happy. What better occasion is there than Eid itself, to cheer up your friends and family? Ask yourself: what would they (the recipient) love to have, but would probably never buy for themselves? I prefer giving things that would be of use to them, rather than sitting on a mantle at their home. Remember, a gift is never about its price. Shop smartly; budget the most time in gift-shopping. 

OR JUST WING IT
Eid shopping can leave you in a stress-induced panic, more so for the traffic and crowds at the mall than the shopping itself. The rule of thumb is to not buy anything you do not need for Eid. These shopping malls (and street stores) will still be there after Eid (without the madness), so patience is key. Also, you don't have to spend your entire bonus or Eid allowance on shopping. Studies say people who spend money on experiences are happier than those who spend on things. Plan a trip with friends or family, get that musical instrument or board game you've always wanted, or just keep it for a crazy day out with friends.