Individualism is a term often ascribed to Western culture. In such societies, individuals prioritise self-identity – ensuring that their personal needs are met before those of the group. The Western world has adapted well to these principles and has continued to instil such values for generations.

This is in direct contrast to the values that we inherit where individuals are expected to prioritise the welfare of the community. Such an altruistic approach to life fosters a sense of collective empathy and deep companionship, which has traditionally been a key aspect of our culture. One of the most prominent ways this feature has been realised is through friendship between women, evident in folktales, music, and art. Evolving from early relationships with cousins, neighbours, and friends which later solidify into stronger bonds of sisterhood, women play essential roles in each other's lives.

All throughout history, women have relied on each other – going as far to trust each other with their children. While it would be wrong to claim that mutual support to such an extent was entirely absent in Western cultures, it was nonetheless, not as common.

In recent times though, there has been a noticeable shift among women as they have started to move away from focusing solely on individualistic practices. Rather, there is a growing inclination towards collectivism, particularly evident in how women are establishing and fostering stronger connections within their female social circles. In adopting collectivism, some have sought to address the negative impacts of extreme individualism, such as the absence of emotional support during difficult times, which has resulted in recognising the values of collectivism.

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Women are cultivating deeper and more meaningful relationships to find emotional nourishment and a sense of acceptance. Feminist movements and mental health campaigns are also emphasising the significance of collective empowerment as well as unity and strong emotional support systems in overcoming challenges. While the negative impacts of hyper-independence have become more prevalent, women hailing from communities whose practices revolve around collectivism, are adopting some values of individualism. After all, self-sufficiency and independence are indeed admirable, and vital survival skills for all. Every woman should possess independence and self-sufficiency to lead life on her terms.

However, being independent does differ from being an individualist. But why do we appear to prefer individualism? Why do we insist on blending our altruism with individualistic ideas to the point that key features of the former get dimmer down the line?

Instead of opting for one over the other, we can blend both these approaches. Exploring both collectivism and individualism, and not overindulging in either one, provides a healthy balance especially when this exchange of cultural practices is voluntary and not imposed.  When it is imposed on us, we get pulled into this whirlwind of individualistic principles, unconsciously forcing us to isolate ourselves from our community. Therefore, cherishing the practices that are more closely intertwined with our roots while embracing the empowering aspects of individualism, helps maintain network of support system that are vital to our well-being.

Silwat Quader is a student of Economics at North South University.