Protect your kids from a world gone mad: Survival tips for modern parenting
Over the last few days, there have been quite a few newspaper headlines that are enough to induce distress in any person, especially if you are a parent. It appears that children's lives are threatened and it is time to reiterate the measures, which can be taken to ensure their safety.
Here are a few things you may consider:
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Teaching them about personal space
Children who have no idea about personal space and safety can become easy victims of abuse. So, your child must understand the concept of personal space and safety from an early age.
Teach them how to say 'no.' Tell them what to do when a stranger approach them, like screaming if they are feeling uncomfortable.
Explain to them how all touches are not the same. A 'bad touch' should not be tolerated and reported immediately even by acquaintances and relatives.
Most importantly, create a safe environment at home where they feel like they belong and can share everything so that you may learn about what is happening to your child.
Trust but verify
It is not possible to raise a child within four walls and it is not recommended either.
Social interactions are a crucial element of proper development for a child. And we understand that sometimes people need help from other people because life gets in the way. When such situations arise, you may trust a friend or a relative but before you do that, ask yourself — are you absolutely sure that your child is safe with this person?
If there is even a shred of doubt about your child's safety, please seek an alternative because children have no way of defending themselves against an adult who has an ill motive.
Another point that is worth noting is that every child should be taught to not speak to strangers while they are alone.
Setting up cameras
Given the nature of incidents we have observed over the last couple of years, try to make sure that you have at least one camera wherever your children are. If it is your own home, you can install a camera easily and monitor your children because we have seen incidents of acquaintances abusing children while their parents are not around.
Try to ensure that the neighbourhood you live in has cameras installed at important intersections and the same goes for your child's school and day-care.
Staying connected
Teach your child how to call for help using a phone, in cases of emergency. While many will argue this point, you may consider giving a mobile phone to your child. However, try not to make it too flashy since an expensive device will only make your child an appealing target for the deviants who are looking for easy victims. A simple feature phone will suffice.
Being there in person
Regardless of whatever else you do; nothing will ever be as good as being there in person with your children. So, whenever possible, be there with and for your child.
If you can afford the time, take them to school, take them on a walk and engage in all sorts of activities. Try to make sure that at least one parent is with the child because nobody else will love your child like you do.
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